It is very early Saturday morning and I think I can take a few minutes to write some words. Yesterday was like one of those funnel thingies that charities sometimes use to collect coins. The coin starts off spinning quite slowly around the edge and then as it gets to the bottom it spins faster and faster and faster until it drops into the box and it's gone!
The day started quite relaxed - we had done 90% of the preparations the day before, but there were still a few things to do. The most important was Lucy and Sean had to go and get their marriage license. Then the flowers arrived and Gary went to get the white chairs, while Lucy, Camille and I went to have our make up done at Dillards and to find Lucy a dress to wear at dinner.
When we got back at about midday things started to move a little faster. Erica , a friend, came to do the girls hair. Gary took poor Charlie to the vets to board for a couple of days. She would have loved to have been here but would have been way over excited. He came back with some mistletoe to put in the centre of the arch. We kind of knew some kissing there was likely - but we had to make sure! We put up the final bits of greenery in the wedding room and arranged the chairs, and rearranged them a couple of times so everyone could see. Lucy did a trial run in her dress. She decided it looked too poofy with the big petticoat underneath, but it was slightly too long without it so we had to put a tuck in at the waist that hid very neatly under the ribbon there, and luckily it looked fine and did the trick. Then I had to iron three shirts for my boys (wrinkle free - not working for me), make sure the bathrooms were clean etc, etc.
Then suddenly it was three o'clock! Edward came home from school and got showered and changed. The groom and best man were due to arrive but didn't - thank goodness for cell phones so we could keep tabs on them- we had sent them shopping for sheets to put on the table behind where the ceremony was taking place and couldn't complete the decorations until they got here and it was getting a bit close to the wire. We all got changed just in time for when the judge arrived at 3.30 as promised. He was absolutely great. He gave each of us our instructions for what we had to do.
Then guests started arriving! But still no groom or bestman. They turned up eventually with table cloths as required and the table was duely decorated and very pretty it was too.
Then suddenly it was time to go. We all sat in our places and Sam cued the music (When You Kiss Me by Shania Twain) and my eyes welled up. We looked round and there they were - Lucy with Gary walking down the aisle. Camille and young Thomas - Sean's nephew - the ring bearer followed.
The judge spoke for a while about what a good marriage should be and I agreed with everything he said. He was funny and kind and wise. He led them through their vows and Sean got a bit overwhelmed at one point but recovered enough to have a little chuckle as he asked Lucy to accept him with all his faults as well as his strengths.
Then they exchanged rings and were pronounced Mr and Mrs Sean Green and there were kisses. They walked back down tbe aisle and we went to greet them. Then came the legal part with the signing of the certificate and then the judge left.
We then took all the photographs and I downloaded a couple for here. Then it was time for dinner.
We went to Carvers in Sandy - I had one of the most melt in the mouth steaks I have ever had, but the most special part of the evening was the speeches. Except I had had a glass of wine by then so I can't remember all that was said exactly. Gary said some thank yous and went on to say what a lucky Dad he was to have a daughter who was a bit of a tomboy so they got to do lots of things together like skiing and skating and how much we liked Sean and how we were confident he would look after Lucy well. Greg the best man said how good Lucy was for Sean and how much he had changed for the better since they got together. Sean said how lucky he was to have Lucy, and Sean's Dad said much the same thing and how happy they were to welcome Lucy into their family. I read out a message from Carolinne which was really lovely. There were some very important people in our lives who in other circumstances - like not being 7000 miles away - would have been there too and we really missed them. We toasted the happy couple with champagne and then we had more wine and lots of wonderful food.
Lucy's evening dress had sparkles on it and everywhere she went she left a sparkly trail - quite appropriate for a radiant bride.
We got home at 8.30 but we were very tired and I fell asleep watching Dr Who.
It was a totally magical day and today will be just as busy.
It has just got light outside and I see we have had a couple of inches of snow overnight!
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